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Rich
I know it may be past this point now
but why not try bringing round a bottle of Vodka (during the day)
and have a chat about your concerns
from my experience people respond much better with a soft approach and it may resolve the issue much quicker
if it dosen't work you've lost nothing and you can carry on with it your way.
Sorry to hear Rich, hope you get things sorted.......
well then my friend, no offence intended in my following post...
Seriously, are you for real.... You say that the Polish have lack of standards..
So you think that going out after a few Stella's breaking his door with his head show's any standards...?
regardless if he is a tw@t or not that sort of violence should not be tolerated and he should have prosecuted you for abuse and bodily harm... exscuse me? he shouldve prosecuted me? lol are YOU for real!? he was beating his girlfriend up most nights and for all i knew he was probably doing the same to the little en! to go a little deeper into the story i once approached her on the stairs and asked her if she was "alright" and she knew what i was reffering too. and i asked her again and she came accross all panicy and told me to drop the subject and stormed off whilst looking around everywhere like she was worried he was watching? she was terrified of him! i knew full well that if i rang the police she would NEVER testify against him and deny any allogations. so like i said, one night i heard him shouting and kicking off and lots of banging and her SCREAMING and then what sounded like him throwing her up against a wall and whacking her with something (or a fist). thats when i flipped! so forgive me for i got them for listening to a grown man beating his misses up in the room next to my living room and then dragging him outside and and showing him thats he wasnt as tough as he thought he was and that it is totally different when he is up against a man insted of a helpless women!!
Yes some Polish are tw@ts but like slobodan said you get people like that in every country or nationality there is no need to generalise them.... and i DID NOT generalise anyone ffs! Rich didnt generalise anyone becuase he chose his words carefully by saying "when you get people like THIS" and the word "THIS" is him making it clear that he was only talking about tw@ts like his neighbours..............so.... .i HIGHLIGHTED his words to let people know that what i was talking about was a direct refference to the tw@ts like his neighbours!! NOT Polish people in general.
it was pretty bluddy obvious mate if you ask me!
people really need to get off my back about me being a racist!! its very upsetting. ive just come out a 2 year relationship with my ex who is half jamaican and her son is half black and half indian!! and your calling me a racist???!! anyone who is calling me a racist, you really have NO CLUE! so stop jumping on my back like a wild pack of wolves. its imature and pathetic.
anyway I think you a probably a really nice lad but think before you post man because such bollux gets peoples hair up and thank you mate. i am. but its not what im posting it what you and others are not reading.
i may be sounding rather absuive in this post but i just wanted to get that off my chest.
Peace.
Jay.
ive been down stormy's when theyve told rich n his neighbours ## get off my @%^&in property'' but they've never said anything to me as yet!!!
we might be part of EU but we still got passports n have to say how long we in a country for anything after time stated we classed as illegals surely????
rich if it helps mate with being witness surely i can help you n the neighbours as ive seen the attitude of them when ive been down your place
ive been down stormy's when theyve told rich n his neighbours ## get off my @%^&in property'' but they've never said anything to me as yet!!!
we might be part of EU but we still got passports n have to say how long we in a country for anything after time stated we classed as illegals surely????
rich if it helps mate with being witness surely i can help you n the neighbours as ive seen the attitude of them when ive been down your place
Nope
stay as long as they like
and legally gain employment
i may be sounding rather absuive in this post but i just wanted to get that off my chest.
Peace.
Jay.
Listen mate I am only going to leave one last comment before we go round in circles otherwise put it in a different thread and I be happy to discuss it with you...
Yes I was for real he should have, regardless of what was going on it is not up to you to go and knock his lights out..
If every person in this country took the law in their own hands it would be a even bigger mess than it already is....
I don't agree with him hitting his missus either and I can see your point but you could also have picked up the phone and called the police....
No need to take matters in your own hands... You might even make things worse in a situation like that for all you know he will accuse her of having an affair with you... (her hero) and he could end up killing her.....
I am sorry but I had a feeling you where generalising you where not just talking about his neighbours because I gather they did not stab you....
Either way that is besides the point really...
And no offence but you say "but its not what im posting it what you and others are not reading."
you don't read to well yourself either because I never ones called you a racist..
nobody is jumping on your back mate everyone is just saying what they think just like you are saying what you think..
Nobody it attacking you we are just having a argument and are discussing things and some people's opinion differs from yours.... SIMPLES
To be honest with you tobyjug i couldnt sit back & let that happen if i was in goodcats position.
Theres only one minority that i can not tolerate; Bullys
To be honest with you tobyjug i couldnt sit back & let that happen if i was in goodcats position.
Theres only one minority that i can not tolerate; Bullys
I know what you mean mate but there is different ways of dealing with things...
And to brag that it took a few beers to do something like that...
If he knew something like that was going on then why not act earlier rather than listening to it for a while..
anyway we are getting way of topic here I am going to detach myself from this post completely lol
I do agree with Gordon though...
A bottle of Vodka and that soft approach might actually work..
Listen mate I am only going to leave one last comment before we go round in circles otherwise put it in a different thread and I be happy to discuss it with you... no its ok mate lol
Yes I was for real he should have, regardless of what was going on it is not up to you to go and knock his lights out.. i acted myself insted of calling the police becuase i knew nothing would beome of calling them. been there done that.....
If every person in this country took the law in their own hands it would be a even bigger mess than it already is.... i totally agree with you mate. however weather we like it or not, exceptions have to be made. we are only human at the end of the day. we are far from perfect and sometimes we resolve back to our raw primitive state now and then and act like idiots.
I don't agree with him hitting his missus either and I can see your point but you could also have picked up the phone and called the police.... like i said before. ^ mate i do know what your saying and techically i cant argue what your saying at all. i too am a big beliver in loving thy neighbour (apart from richs lol) and that there cant be 1 rule for some and another for others....but at the same time i cant help but stick by my guns and say that im not sorry for what i did. its a crazy world! lol
No need to take matters in your own hands... You might even make things worse in a situation like that for all you know he will accuse her of having an affair with you... (her hero) and he could end up killing her..... i very much doubt it. its clear that im his neighbour and that i can hear all the noise and fuss and i just got the hump and acted. i also made this clear as i gave him a good verbal as i was showing him what the floor looked like
I am sorry but I had a feeling you where generalising you where not just talking about his neighbours because I gather they did not stab you....
Either way that is besides the point really... just for the record nobody stabbed me. he tried but i dodged it thank god and run as fast as i could from them. i count my lucky stars that i was the faster runner out the lot of them!
even if they had stabbed me, im not the sort of guy to then say all pols are pricks. i have many a diverse group of friends and my mind is not that imature to think such beliefs.
And no offence but you say "but its not what im posting it what you and others are not reading."
you don't read to well yourself either because I never ones called you a racist..
nobody is jumping on your back mate everyone is just saying what they think just like you are saying what you think..
Nobody it attacking you we are just having a argument and are discussing things and some people's opinion differs from yours.... SIMPLES nobody called me a racist in so many words but it certainly felt like that people were implying it.
anyway as my good friend Tito in Jamaica says....."peace and jar mon!"
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