No disrespect to you but I thought it would be easier if there was someone there that had done it before & knew the best way to go about it, I thought that maybe there's a routine to it so everything is done in some kind of order rather than trying to do one thing & then going back to do something that had been over looked, I'd be of little use & I'd hate for you to struggle over something or have to rush, I don't mind waiting until the new year if it means you'll have help from someone who has done it before who'll know exactly what order to do things in.
Sorry I hope that doesn't sound negative, I really do appreciate your offer but I think I would feel so guilty if you were trying to do this without help & I was sat there unable to do much, I've only just started using the wheelchair & I'm struggling to cope with the fact, I've hardly been out the past 14 months because of it, I was in it last sunday at Malvern & I didn't like my friends to push me as I felt guilty that I was taking up their time so I went off on my own, I do feel guilty when people do things for me & I would feel much worse if you did this on your own.
I hope you'll understand what I mean, I don't want to offend you.
Cheers
Ian
Sorry I hope that doesn't sound negative, I really do appreciate your offer but I think I would feel so guilty if you were trying to do this without help & I was sat there unable to do much, I've only just started using the wheelchair & I'm struggling to cope with the fact, I've hardly been out the past 14 months because of it, I was in it last sunday at Malvern & I didn't like my friends to push me as I felt guilty that I was taking up their time so I went off on my own, I do feel guilty when people do things for me & I would feel much worse if you did this on your own.
I hope you'll understand what I mean, I don't want to offend you.
Cheers
Ian
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