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it seems that this year has been a bad year for most, but for me i've lost my family, my partner and wife of 8 yrs doesnt want me anymore, but feels there is more to life than being a married mum at 27, i'm gutted, can't get over it either and is really draining me, i will, pick up, but when i don't know, the pain is terrible, miss my boy and his daily antics, miss my wife....
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Originally posted by huff_diggler
Oh jeeyz mate thats bad. Kinda puts things in perspective
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Sh*t mate, not a lot I can say at the moment thats gonna help, but...
I've been there, and I know a number of the members here have so you've got company. Things will get better. Take's time, but there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Me and my boy (lives with his mum) have a brilliant relationship now. Chin up, and try to be positive. Things WILL get better.Cutting steps in the roof of the worldComment
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At least you're out of it instead of suffering her cr@p. One thing to be thankful for. It's a bugger where the bairns are involved though. Look on the bright side mate. The despondency will pass, and you're single again.
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dont really know what to say m8 but life can get better i went though stage where i lost my wife n kid at the time n lived on the street but i wish you the best n keep ya chin up m8 i know it can be hard but dont forget us lot here on the forum like a family i know it not like a real family but we can all try n like brothers in a sense or sisters even through our love of surfsOriginally posted by huff_digglerComment
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Wont sound good right now, but as Matt says, that last bit is a BIG plus!Originally posted by MattFThe despondency will pass, and you're single again. Cutting steps in the roof of the worldComment
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I can't believe you have just said that..................Originally posted by Apache
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dont know if mine sounded right either as i aint good with words but i hope you know what i meanComment
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Trust me, I know what I'm talking about.
For about 6 months I was wrecked, but after that, when I'd got something sorted with my boy...
Kid in a sweetshop springs to mind...Cutting steps in the roof of the worldComment
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Originally posted by pirate-storm
came across fine - was the single bit a big plus I struggled with
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Why?Originally posted by Bibscame across fine - was the single bit a big plus I struggled with
What do you want him to do? Mope around forever?
OK, maybe Matt jumped the gun a bit (he's like that) but you gotta get back on the horse as they say. The choice is :-
Drown in your problems. OR. Get out there and rebuild.
Believe me, I spent some time doing the former and it was nearly the end of me, but I did get through, and I did have some fun. I bought a 2 seater sportscar, had lots of one-nighters, and did what I should have done years ago. Now, I'm happily married again, and have a great relationship with my lad (who's with my ex) and a pretty good one with her.
I want our esteemed member here to know that even though it feels like the end of the world right now, it isn't. He will get through, especially with us lot here for him to lean on
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He could have made it plainer, I agree. So, here goes..........................Originally posted by Bibscame across fine - was the single bit a big plus I struggled with
SINGLE = BIG PLUS
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Was a bit blunt - See I knew there was a better way of expressin yaself -Originally posted by ApacheWhy?
What do you want him to do? Mope around forever?
OK, maybe Matt jumped the gun a bit (he's like that) but you gotta get back on the horse as they say. The choice is :-
Drown in your problems. OR. Get out there and rebuild.
Believe me, I spent some time doing the former and it was nearly the end of me, but I did get through, and I did have some fun. I bought a 2 seater sportscar, had lots of one-nighters, and did what I should have done years ago. Now, I'm happily married again, and have a great relationship with my lad (who's with my ex) and a pretty good one with her.
I want our esteemed member here to know that even though it feels like the end of the world right now, it isn't. He will get through, especially with us lot here for him to lean on
makes sense now
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MATT = FECKIN EVIL!Originally posted by MattFHe could have made it plainer, I agree. So, here goes..........................
SINGLE = BIG PLUS
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Nothing new there thenOriginally posted by ApacheMATT = FECKIN EVIL!
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