Yes i know i haven't been around much lately, but i do value the thoughts guidance and general feedback i get from a chosen few.
Some of you will remember my emotive post where my Father on friday the 13th of may had a severe nose dive in health, so bad he was given the last rites, he has hung on to life, however he has alzheimers and we all know the end game on this disease. He has had yet another re-lapse and had to be admitted to Hospital,he is stable and eating etc, they keep putting him back on IV to keep him hydrated, My sister and I agreed many years ago that we would not let Dad go down the same route as his own father wherein he suffered for three weeks in the same hospital and finally gave up on life.in those three weeks he went through agony with a lot of 'invasive' procedures. Could anyone guide me as to how we can insist/action that Dad is returned to his care home to die in dignity ? We have already signed the Do Not Resusc statement, the care home are in total agreement and support us, but no one seems to want to listen at the hospital,
sorry to burden you people with this, but you guys have come through on many occasions and helped me immensely
Thanks
John
Some of you will remember my emotive post where my Father on friday the 13th of may had a severe nose dive in health, so bad he was given the last rites, he has hung on to life, however he has alzheimers and we all know the end game on this disease. He has had yet another re-lapse and had to be admitted to Hospital,he is stable and eating etc, they keep putting him back on IV to keep him hydrated, My sister and I agreed many years ago that we would not let Dad go down the same route as his own father wherein he suffered for three weeks in the same hospital and finally gave up on life.in those three weeks he went through agony with a lot of 'invasive' procedures. Could anyone guide me as to how we can insist/action that Dad is returned to his care home to die in dignity ? We have already signed the Do Not Resusc statement, the care home are in total agreement and support us, but no one seems to want to listen at the hospital,
sorry to burden you people with this, but you guys have come through on many occasions and helped me immensely
Thanks
John
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